5 Things Never Share With Anyone by Albert Einstein

 Hello, good people there are some things that you are not supposed to share with anyone whether your friend or enemy.

 There are some things that we are not supposed have or even think to tell our friends. some secret that we do not share with anyone.

By sharing some things with someone our heart becomes lighter and we come closer to each other but there are some things that should not be told to anyone even after forgetting.

Number one

 The secret of your progress or success.

 Most of us feel good when we have succeeded in life and sometimes we feel that other people should know. At times we trust our innermost friends and share our progress not knowing that not all our friends have good heart. Others feel jealous when you have achieved a certain property. 

For example ,you can tell even your family members that you have a certain project of buying a land and they become brokers to bring you down. Not all that glitters is gold meaning never trust your friend,  instead you should have your secrets kept among your intermediate family if only they are trustworthy. Some people if you try to inform them about how you have opened a business and they make a decision of doing the same business like you and if they fail,they will lose trust in you and accuse you of not telling them the truth. So never tell anyone the secret of your success

Number two 

Don't share your problems

Sharing our problems makes us feel lighter and less burdened, but instead of solving the problems it increases.

When you tell your problem to people you are increasing the chances of creating more enemies, because your friends will run away from you. Let's talk for example the case of finance. If you talk your struggles on raising the money e.g school fees,they will think that you will borrow from them and they will look for all means to avoid you.

Instead of helping,they will talk ill of you. Try as much as possible to know whom to tell your troubles.

In fact 70 of the people are happy to hear about your problems and 10 really care.So think twice before telling someone your problems,because they may end up adding more troubles to your heart and life.

Number three

 Don't share your dreams with anyone

If you have certain dreams that you are supposed to persue in life,never ever reveal them to people. If you want to buy a car or continue with your achievements in life for example in education,just consult from professional people who can give good advise on career progression. They can make you to achieve more goals in life.

But if you go to a person who has jealous and doesn't have any dream in life,they will mislead and misguide you until you end up taking wrong choices. Their aim is to destroy and they feel bad when you progress in life.

If you have already set your goals and dreams in life, it is best to keep them to yourself.

Because sharing them can affect your point of view and your purpose and you can get caught up in it.

Always remember that we cannot get the same advice or opinion from others because every person has a different point of view.

Number four

 Don't share with anyone how much you earn up

It doesn't matter how much you earn,just keep it to yourself. Your salary may affect you directly or indirectly. The person you tell are the same people who will look for all means to bring you down. They will be borrowing money from you and if you don't give them they will even plot to kill you. They will not understand when you tell them that you don't have money because you had given out your secret on salary.

Others will borrow and they promise to return back but ,but back in their mind they had achieved what they wanted. When you try to ask them, they will even abuse you and tell you ,you have a lot of money and you want us to return the money back? That question shows an indication how jealous they are, concerning your income.

Just keep your income secretly and don't even think of showing your family members how much you have in the banks,the assets and liabilities you possess.

Number five

 Don't share your family problems with anyone

Most of the families have their own problems,which are big than yours and others small but they don't tell it out.

Sharing with strangers will never solve those problems. Instead you will be destroying your family and they will definitely know how desperate you are.

Most of the people they love to hear other people's problem and they longer stretch out an helping hand,instead of building they destroy. 

You should talk to your family members about these problems.

Sharing these issues with others only aggravates the problem and leaves in you dilemma situation not knowing what to do. 

If you have other tips don't forget to include them under comment section and don't forget to share.

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Bathing a Newborn Baby (with Umbilical Cord): Step-by-step Video

Hello, good people today we are going to discuss on how to bathe a newborn baby after delivery.

Congratulations mommy and daddy on your new arrival.  Hygiene is an important aspect of baby care and a daily bath is essential to keep your baby clean and fresh.  You can make a baby anytime but it is advisable to do so before our feet.

Bathing your baby too soon after feet can cause your baby to be uncomfortable and spit out milk if it is your first time bathing your little one . You will probably feel anxious but with constant practice you will gain confidence and your baby will get used to bath time ande enjoy it.

Most babies find warm water soothing and embark, may help a fussy baby to relax and calm down. If you are still new to baby bathing, you may want your spouse to help you. You will need the following items to bathe your baby :

- Abathtub

 -Jug of water 

-Cool boil water

- Cotton wool

-Balls bin or a plastic bag to contain

soil cotton wool balls ,a face cloth

towel ,bath soap, baby clothes, a diaper

and a baby wrap.

 If necessary before you start do remember to wash your hands with soapa water and ensure that you have all the necessary items *Remember, never your baby unattended during bath time.

 Preparing the bath fill the basin with cold water first ,then warm water up the one-third level of the tub. Mix the water well and use the inner part of your forearm to test the temperature of the water make sure it is comfortably warm and not too hot.

Squeeze two drops of baby soap into thew and mix well . Place your baby on to the bath towel and gently remove the best talk to your baby so that he/she feels reassured.

Leaf has diapers on and wrap them up with the towel, keeping his head and feet wrapped within the towel ,cleaning your baby's eyes. Dip the cotton ball into the cool boiled water and squeeze out the excess water. 

Clean your baby's eye by starting from the inner corner of the eye and move outwards. Use a new piece of cotton ball for each eye and him in one stroke .Do not use the same piece to clean back and forth, observe for any sticky or yellowish discharge on your baby's eyes and bring him to the doctor if the discharge persists. Cleaning your baby's face ,wash your baby's face using cool boil water. You can either use a face cloth or cotton balls dipped in the water clean your baby's face from center outwards making sure you wipe the forehead the nose the cheeks and the mouth area.

Washing your baby's hair, carry her baby using a football fold with the palm of your hand supporting his head and neck and tucking him between your arm and the side of your body. Tilt his head slightly backwards over the bath basin and wash his hair then dry his head gently with the corner of the towel wrap. please your baby on the table to unwrap him and remove his diapers.

If your baby is soil,clear his buttocks area with wet wipes .Wash your hands after cleaning ,if your baby has passed motion you are now ready to place baby into the tub of water for his bath.

Washing the baby's body position your left hand on the baby's shoulder to support it and hook your fingers under the baby's armpit to have a good grasp slide your right hand under the buttocks and grip the baby's tie and lick the baby into the bathtub.

Allow your baby to sit in the tub with your left hand still supporting a baby shoulders while keeping your baby's head above the water level release your right hand grip and bathe the babies front and private area with the help of a face cloth once done use your right hand to take over the grip under the baby. Stamped it and allow him to lean forwards over your right arm while you clean his back and buttocks with your left hand. Talk and sing to your baby as you bathe himt make bath time enjoyable.

 When you are done lift him out of the water the same the same way you brought him in. Place your baby gently onto the towel and pat him dry.Pay attention to the skin force and be sure to dry behind the ears in between his fingers and toes under his armpit  and private area.

Before dressing your baby, be sure to clean the umbilical area.The UH glycol cod will drop off in about five to seven days .If you notice any bleeding or foul-smelling discharges you should relieve the cord and consult a doctor .If symptoms persist cleaning your baby's umbilical cord wash your hands before cleaning them like a cod ,use cotton balls dipped in cool boil water and squeeze dry to clean the base of the cord with one circular motion discard then swap after use, then with a clean swab clean the sides of the card from the base upwards each time using a new piece of swamp.Clean the core clamp and the tip of the cord. 

Dressing your baby do not move a dress ,your baby wear clothes that are comfortable for the environment you may apply baby lotion on your baby before dressing him up, but baby powder is not encouraged. 

Cuddle your baby often to reassure him to encourage your spouse to take part in bathing your baby. As it is a wonderful opportunity for bonding with your baby feeling clean fresh and comfortable .It is time, for a good feed babies usually sleep better after one.

bath - congratulations on successfully

bathing your baby practice makes perfect

and all mommies and daddies can do it. 

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