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15 Things Poor People Do That The Rich Don’t

 

I know that many of you are on your way to [achieving] financial success

So I wanted to put together a list of things that poor people do which guarantees our mediocrity.

Please take all of these with a grain of salt and realize these are here to make you think about your current situation.And what you could do to better yourself?

As always there are plenty of exceptions to these rules not everyone is in control of those circumstances

But being aware of these habits and activities might give you a slight edge and who knows if you stop doing them

Maybe you'd be closer to that goal. You've been dreaming about here are 15 things poor people do that the rich don't

Number One. Poor people watch a lot of TV

Let me put it this way if you [have] [the] time to watch reality TV you're probably poor. It's always amazing how much time poor people waste on Meaningless television

It's one of those distractions that grabs you and doesn't let go [if] you know which celebrity is dating who and if you're watching TV shows every week as the episodes come on if you have a favorite news channel

You're probably watching too much television hence why your life is the way it is let us explain celebrity gossip and buzz offers no value to your life.It only serves the celebrities ,rich people aim to be on TV instead of watching it you might say.

But rich people are watching as a big bang theory which is a really funny show and it helps them disconnect.That's exactly the issue you disconnect from your problems instead of dealing with them and getting them out of the way there are rare occasions

where in the words of John Lennon time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time?

But really think about it should sitting and slide watching a screen be something you really enjoy [doing]

Before we move forward to the second thing poor people - let me explain what we meant by having a favorite news channel you might

Say that the only good reason to watch TV is to be aware of what's happening in the world staying informed the problem

we're seeing with this is that ,TV stations are always biased in order to pick their own [Magenta]instead use the power of the internet ,to get a quick glimpse of what the world is like today and move on to do your own thing.

Number two [Poor] people eat fast food


Health is really important and many poor [people] have no interest in [knowing]. What's in their food?What an actual healthy meal should look like or barely know anything about nutrition?

Poor people are blasting their brains with large quantities [of] [sugar] and fats with no nutritional value

They are actively ruining their bodies and as in effect they cannot perform at 100% of their potential [if] you're not healthy all aspects of your [life] are directly affected ,you'll suffer physically ,mentally,professionally and even romantically

Number three. Poor people buy clothes or products [that] are on sale

Let me put it this way the only thing you should buy on sale are stocks.

While poor people are looking to conserve or stretch the little that they have ,the rich are focused on increasing their incomes.

Just think about it, the clothes that end up being on sale are the ones that [people] who could [afford] to pay the full price didn't want by buying clothes on sale. You're just making sure that you're looking exactly like someone who can't afford to pay the full price.

Number four. Poor people wake up later than rich people do in their early years

Poor people are often lazier than the rich in the early days.

We know that some of you will be bothered a lot by the previous statement, but statistically It's the truth . Someone who used their youth to grow themselves, is a lot less likely [to] remain poor later on in life instead [if] you wake up late.

Don't educate yourself waste time on meaningless activities ,at one point you'll find yourself so far behind what the world needs from you that you'll end up miserable. The Paradox is that people who do not focus on growth in the early days, end up working a lot harder with little success rate later in life .

Number [5]

Where people are really into sports

The truth is unless you're a professional athlete or an owner of one of the teams[there's] really no reason for you to watch sports. It's the same with television. It's escapism from your current reality.

Think of it like this, you're putting yourself in a position where you as an individual have no impact on the outcome of the game.

Zero Impact this behavior then sticks with you and you end up being a spectator in life, instead of being [a] player or an owner?

And that's when you start criticizing other people when you yourself haven't done anything better.

Number six. Poor people don't shower as often as rich people who initially we thought this was just a made-up fact

But it turns out to be true and amazingly . It explains a lot when you really think about it.

Most of the jobs today are in the service industries where human contact is a must, in order to have a successful exchange of value.People who don't have good personal hygiene will in time be less successful than their counterparts.

People tend to trust them ,less people want to spend less time when their presence and all of this has ramifications.

In their personal life if people don't like you and don't want to be around you ,what kind of partners will you attract exactly?It might seem ridiculous, but the first step to success should be an early morning shower

Number seven. Poor people blame others for their misfortune

How many people do you know that have some sort [of] excuse or blame other factors for not being successful yet?There are some things that are out of our control but 99% of your life is on you.

Remember that you are in charge of your life. You [are] in charge of your relationships you are in charge of your health you want these to change do something about it life is [not]. What happens to us it's how we react to what happens to us.

When something bad [happens] the poor choose to victimize themselves while the rich look into it study it.

They seek [to] find out what happened.Why it happened and how they can protect from it in the future?

While one assumes the position of vulnerable victim the other uses it as a growing point.

Number eight. Poor people have no money saved

One of the differences between poor people and the rich is that the former don't get ready for what's next.Having money put aside allows for Growth

Let's say something bad happens if you have money put aside the problem is solved,and you can resume your life. if you don't and the situation is urgent[what] do you do you either liquidate an asset like your car house?Or you can take a loan for the rich when the situation is overthey're left in the same position - the savings

While for someone who's poor their lifestyle has been dramatically hit or now belongs to the creditor now.

Let's look at the exact opposite an opportunity arises

Those who have money put aside?

Now have the chance to expand their lives while the other can't afford to take a full advantage of this opportunity

That's why the rich are growing richer while the poor are getting poorer?

Number [9] . Poor people use credit cards or take out loans for useless things

One of the main differences between rich and poor is how they make use of credit?

The rule is simple if you take out a loan to buy something that doesn't generate more money than the loan don't take it.

You should only use credit [if] what you'll be using it for is an investment

Want to take out a loan for a large TV?

Don't want a loan to buy that new supreme gear don't want to use credit cards to get the new iphone Don't.

Unless you're flipping the supreme gear for profit or you're using your iphone to develop a new app to grow your business.

[These] items should not be on your credit, instead earn the money and then spend it. You'll learn more about this on number 12 number.

Number 10. Poor people tend to have more kids and earlier in [life] the truth

Is kids are really really expensive we all know how fun it is [to] make them or at least?

Practice making them but people get stuck up to this point. They don't think it's true

Just to give you a sense of perspective if you're living in one of the more developed countries raising a child will cost you approximately the [hundred] and fifty thousand dollars because [of] a lack of education.

That environment and other factors poor people have on average [more] children and at a younger age than their rich counterparts while the rich wait a couple of years until their standards of living improve in order to assure the right environment and prime conditions for their child to flourish the poor just go ahead with it.

Once the baby comes the struggling begins just so they can stay afloat and progress Beyond barely surviving is almost impossible to achieve.

Number Eleven. Poor people do not do regular checks

They're doctors

We've touched on the importance of health in the past, but this is an especially important point for people. Do not get themselves checked regularly

Let's say by mere chance you end up having a difficult disease like cancer, if you do regular check-up you'll discover in early Stages making the treatment possible at a lower cost. [if] on the other hand you neglect to do so you might discover it only when it's too late it will cost both you and your entire family of Fortune.

And no matter how much money you have you might still lose your life

Number 12. Poor people spend money before they get it

One of the biggest dangers in life is spending money before you have it . The second you start borrowing money or acquiring expenses before you're able to pay them .Your life starts to spiral down if you don't have money for something that you're [willing] to part with without affecting your life, then you can't afford it .go back to work

 Number 13. Poor people surround themselves with other poor people.

One of the ways [people] make sure they stay poor is by associating themselves or hanging out with other poor people that reinforce their core beliefs. You need people around you that will inspire you and push you further, that are doing incredible [things] themselves,whose success will only motivate you to exceed your current reality .

If you're hanging out with the same people you did when you were young,you might want to double check.

Don't be afraid to step away from a crowd and move on to something better if you don't. Your potential will probably be crushed by those who want to feel better about their miserable lives by making [sure] you suffer the same fate?

Number 14. Poor people never follow through on their ideas or potential.

You're not able to control who your parents are,where you are born or [the] way society treats you. The only thing you can control is the amount of hours you put into your dream.

Every single person alive only has 24 hours per day,and yet some do a lot more than others. If you dedicate yourself to learning and implementing more about what you're passionate about,It's only a matter of time until you reach success.

You've heard that 9 out [of] 10 businesses fail in their first three [years]. Well do you know how many businesses fail because they never got started ?The answer is all of them if you have an idea.

Work on it, put it out, get feedback, improve it, launch again and again and again.

Number 15. Poor people believe that others should help them reach the top the [world] doesn't owe you anything

Nobody does believe it or not you're in this by yourself. You are in charge

What happens in your life?

The thing is everyone believes when they're young that they're going to be successful, but then [reality] happens this world

We're living in rewards only the best the best those that never quit those that keep learning.Keep adapting and understand that nobody will solve their problems for them.

Face them head-on and along the way you might meet people who feel the [same] way and might share parts of the journey with you.Otherwise you'll just be a part of that majority that's meant to fail

If you know someone who's guilty of any of these 15 things,please try to help him/ her by showing him these 15 ideas and hopefully he/ she will change.

Please write. I will be rich in the [comments] section make your desires public so we can keep you accountable for them.

 


6 Ways to Get People to Respect You (Avoid Being Taken Advantage Of)


Do you often find yourself being taken advantage of?Perhaps you're often talked down to and treated as less than.

Sometimes people can be harsh and judgmental.And you may feel as if they don't hold any respect for you.

It's not always nice to hang around those who don't value you.So, if given the chance,it may be best to simply walk away,and say good riddance.

But, if you find you're always being subtly treated this way maybe you'd like to adopt some behaviors to gain respect.

You can still be you.You just simply respect yourself enough,to not let others walk all over you.Sound like a plan?

Okay.

Here are six ways to get people to respect you.

Number one, Respect yourself first.

We should all learn to love ourselves.And in doing so,give us the respect we deserve.Often at times we can be too harsh on ourselves,and let our insecurities and dark thoughts take the lead.

But do away with them.With a little practice self-respect,you can be on your way to thinking higher of yourself and loving you in the process.

Many researchers, such as Herbert M. Lefcourt,state that having a sense of internal locus of control,over our own lives,is a key condition for our mental health.

Locus of control,refers to how much someone feels a sense of agency towards their life.

Someone with an internal locus of control believes the things that happened to them are strongly influenced by their own actions,abilities or mistakes.

  • To practice self-respect,you must first allow yourself to say no,without feeling guilty.
  • Prioritize what is important in your life.
  • Protect yourself.
  • And choose to keep only healthy relationships.It's key to not let others take advantage of you.
  • And make sure you get what you pay for in life.

So if you're at an ice cream stand,and you paid for two scoops of ice cream,and only received one,instead of brushing it off,simply ask that you receive that extra chocolate scoop,and don't feel guilty about it.It's just ice cream, and you're hungry.

Your priority right now is to satisfy your appetite.And guess what?Ice cream is the way.Two scoops please.

Furthermore, it's important to knowyou can create your own happiness,not just others.

This is a form of self-respect as well.So go ahead and enjoy those two scoops.You respect yourself too much to not appreciate themand you.

Number two. Set clear boundaries.

It's important to set boundaries for ourselves and others.

Let's say your friend often comes over to your housefor movie night.You love and care for your friend.But they aren't the most respectful guests.

  1. They put their feet up on your coffee table.
  2. They bring their dog fleas over.
  3. They eat most of your food
  4. They leave Cheeto Puff remainson your furniture, everywhere.

Do they respect you?It doesn't look like it.

A good step would be to set some boundaries for when company comes over.And discuss them with your dear friend.You can be kind when discussing this with them and consider their point of view as well.

But it's your home,and it's ultimately your rules.So tell them they can't keep scavenging through your fridge.Fleas must be on a leash,and to keep their cheese-filled hands to themselves.Not on the furniture.And pause off the table, fleas.

Number three,

Understand you don't have to be nice all the time.

Who wouldn't wanna be nice when they want to?But when you feel like you have to,at the expense of your own happiness,it's not a good idea.

Sadly, a lot of people think,they can take advantage of those who are kind to them.

This doesn't mean you have to stop being a good person.Just simply know when you must put yourself first,and also don't feel guilty about it all the time.

You may think that if you don't do every favor your friend asks of you,they might not like you anymore.

But what kind of friend is that?You may feel guilty if you don't accept your friend's invitation to hang out every time.But you just got snuggled into a bubble bath.

You just like to be alone tonight.Perhaps you don't allow yourself to not smile.So you throw on a contrived smile before you go out the door,even when you're having a bad day,as great as smiling feels.

A forced smile can't always make you feel better.Allow yourself to admit you're having a bad day.

You don't need to be in a certain mood for anyone.Allowing unnecessary guilt to take control can leave you associating these one's happy actions with something forced and uncomfortable.

Practice assuring yourself,that if you allow yourself,the guilt free time to relax first,you'll only feel happier when the time comes to hang out with your friend next.

Number four. Speak up

Many of us often have shy personalities.So doing all the talking during a group conversation may not be our thing.

But just because you're shy,doesn't mean you should let others interrupt you.If others often interrupt you,or appear as if they aren't listening,there's some tricks you can use to make yourself heard.

First, try saying the name of the person you're speaking to mid conversation.

Similar to the cocktail party effect,we will often have our attention pulled back to reality when our names are heard.

Such as when we're at a cocktail party and here our name in the distance.You know how your music teacher would always say your name mid sentence to regain your attention?We're doing the same thing here.

Another trick is to often use hand gestures,and give an equal amount of eye contact to everyone.Using hand gestures grabs attention,and strongly conveys your message.

Eye contact.If someone was looking into the depths of your soul,you'd be bound to notice.Just make sure you give everyone,equal amounts of eye contact.Maybe no soul staring today.

Number five. Don't over-apologize.

Do you often find yourself apologizing for something that wasn't even your fault?It may just become habit to say, sorry when something goes wrong.You may only wanna say it to not be unkind.

But your words should carry weight,especially in apology.If you apologize too often,your sorry maybe viewed as nothing to others who hear it too often.

And unfortunately,over-apologizing can be a sign to others that you are submissive.Sooner or later, they'll assume,you'll be the one to take the blame.Or that you're too nice to speak up if they walk all over you.

Some common things we unnecessarily apologize for.If you don't wanna do a favor, don't apologize.

-It's a favor.

-If you have an opposing opinion,agree to disagree.

It's your opinion.Stand by it.

*Remember, you don't have to be unkind.Say sorry, when sorry is do.

But be conscious of how often and how unnecessarily you do say it.

Number six,

Display confident body language.

Confidence is key.And that's what people often say.And it can be very true most times.

If you want to command respect,a good way is to let your body language show,that you can't be pushed around.

Quite literally too.

Strong stance and good posture won't send you toppling over if bumped into.So, use good posture and stand up tall,make good eye contact when listening and speaking.

Crossing our arms is often seem as defensive.So it's best to relax them by your side.

Carry your head high and eyes forward,instead of looking to the ground.Observe the scene at a party,don't be afraid to people watch.And it's a party after all.

And remember those hand gestures,continue to use them while speaking.And you'll be as confident and respected as an international leader.

So, do you often feel disrespected?

Will you use these tips?

Do you say sorry, often?

Let me know about a time where you felt disrespected.

Which tips would you use to command the respect of others?

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Bill Gates' Advice, for Young People Who Want to Be Rich



10 Advice by Bill Gates to Young People Who Want to Be Rich

He became a billionaire in 1987 at the age of 31 and the richest man in the world at the age of 39, Bill Gates has since then remained one of the richest people in the world.

Kind of him, he has given various advice to young people over the years on how they can become rich and successful.

By sharing with you 10 of the most inspiring advice Bill Gates has given and I hope some of his advice change your life.

No. 7 is our favorite advice and I need you to see it Let’s get started.

Advice No. 1.

"Don't compare yourself with anyone in this world ...

 If you do so, you are insulting yourself."

Abraham Lincoln once wrote to the teacher of his child to make a request.It was a simple one; “Teach him that nobody in the world is bigger than him and he’s bigger than no one”.

Unfortunately, most young people in our world today live their lives comparing themselves to every other person and end up trying to be everyone.That’s the path to unhappiness and failure in life.

Listen!You’re a unique being who is not designed to be good in everything, but in somethingunique.

Your life’s mission isn’t to beat other people in their games.Your life’s mission is to know your own game.

Be yourself.Know that nobody is better than you and you’re better than no one.You’re simply a unique being who is capable of achieving what nobody else can.

Advice No. 2.

"To win big, you sometimes have to take big risks."

The best time of your life to dare life is when you’re young because you have nothing to lose, really nothing.

  • Don’t take life easy.
  • Don’t live like everyone.
  • Don’t just talk about your dreams.
  • Wake up and pursue it.
  • Don’t make excuses.
  • Start with whatever you have wherever you are.
  • Get out and get lost.

Advice No. 3.

Your exposure from a young age to the realities of the world is a super-big thing.

Most people don’t know what life really is, until they are 40.Most people live with the illusion that life is (or should be) easy.Most people expect the government or their parents to solve their problems.

The earlier you understand the realities of life, the more successful you will become.

What then is the reality?Well, the reality is that, life is tough and nobody will help you to solve your problems.

We’re sorry, your parents or government cannot help you.

The earlier you take 100% responsibility for your life, the more successful you’ll become.

No. 4.

You need a coach.

It doesn't matter whether you're a basketball player, a tennis player, a gymnast, or a bridge player In life, you’ll become the person you admire.If you don’t admire anyone significant, you’ll become nobody significant.

You need a coach, someone to inspire and challenge you, someone to help you believe in yourself.

Your coach doesn’t always have to be someone you have physical access to, you can decide to read books written by people who have achieved what you want to achieve.

You can follow such people online and watch their inspiring videos.

But why is this important?

Simple; because life is tough and most people around you don’t know anything about success.

If your father isn’t successful, he can’t teach you how to be successful.

If you siblings are mediocre, they can’t inspire you to be successful.

That’s why you need to look outside your domain for someone who can inspire and challenge

you.

No. 5.

"If you show people the problems and you show people the solutions, they will be moved to act."

To be successful in life, you must be able to lead people and to get them motivated toward a common goal.

To motivate people into actions, you’ll have to show them what the problem is and what can be done to create a solution.

As a leader, don’t just give instruction, let people know the reason why what has to be done needs to be done.

No. 6.

"Success is a lousy teacher.

It can seduce you into thinking you can't lose."

If you want to be successful for a long time, you have to be humble.

So many people have been successful for few minutes because they got to a point where they started thinking that they know it all.

People who are successful for a long time never stop learning because they know that they can lose if they don’t keep on learning.

 No 7.

I spend a lot of time reading.”

Even as one of the richest man in the world for over 3 decades, Bill Gates still remains a voracious reader because he understands that life changes every day and the only way to remain relevant is to keep on learning.

In this day of social media and “interesting” movies, how many young people take time to read good books anymore?

Yet, the books you read determine the future you’ll have.

Just as Charlie Jones said; “You will be the same person in five years as you are today except for the people you meet and the books you read”.

No 8.

We start life with many big dreams–things we want to accomplish, create, build and experience.

But if you ask anyone past the age of 40 what happened to all the dreams they had, they will most likely answer; Life.”

According to a study, out of 60 people who are planning to start their own businesses right now, only one of them will ever start anything.

Not only business, people generally hate the pains of taking action, so much that, even when they try to take action, the first failure or second send them back to their comfort zone.

Most people are dreamers because dream is sweet.You can’t be healthy for long if you only eat sweet things.

Dream is sweet and everyone eat it.Action is bitter and that’s why only few people take proactive, determined and persistentactions.

Be among the few who get up from their dreams.Get out and get crazy.

No 9.

"Our success has really been based on partnerships from the very beginning."

The first big success of Microsoft happened in the year 1980 when Bill Gates partnered with the IBM and ever since then, Bill Gates has always been on the look out to whom he can partner with.

His passion for partnership was so strong that Microsoft even went to the extent of partnering with one of their biggest competitors, Apple computer.

What can you learn from this?Two are better than one.

You’ll grow and succeed faster in life, if you learn how to work with other people.

No 10.

"Your most unhappy customers are your greatest source of learning."

This explains itself.

Your unhappy clients and customers give you feedbacks about what needs to be corrected in your products or services.

In summary, if you want to be rich and successful in life, don’t compare yourself with anyone,never allow your dreams to die, be strong and take risks, be humble, read good books and learn how to work and partner with other people and share it with your friends on social media.

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10 Mistakes Most Young People Make & Regret Later in Life

Adolescent and early adulthood is just too exciting, no wonder most of us make several mistakes at a time like that.

I will be sharing with you 10 mistakes most young people make and regret later in their life If you’re still young, you’ll have opportunity to correct some of these mistakes.

If you’re already 75, well, we’re sorry.

Hahahaha….

Mistake No. 1 Young People Spend money on trivial things

Most young people want to have fun; they want to enjoy their life and feel among.They look at others and want to be like them, buy what they buy and live the way they do.

Young people are more likely to run after fashion, style, fun and many more.There’s nothing bad in being fashionable and buying latest iPhones except it’s making you poorer.

As a young person, your primary assignment should be to build a solid financial foundation for your life.

To do this, you have to have the habit of saving and learn about investing.You can buy everything and anything your heart desires but that’s after you have built wealth.

I know, that’s an ugly advice for anyone at 20s, until you’re 50 and know what itmeans to be broke at such age.

Mistake No. 2.

Young people think Schooling is enough to get rich

Maybe this isn’t their fault actually,maybe we should blame the society for this.

You see, your education actually truly starts the day you leave school.You may not like to hear this but it’s the truth.The real world is very different from the four walls of the classroom.

Truly successful people are people who learn daily, even two decades after they’ve left school.

Unfortunately, most people of the world stop learning the day they leave school and that’s a big mistake that leads to poverty and unfulfilled life.

Read good books,listen to good audio program.School doesn’t teach you much things as you’ll like to believe.

Mistake No. 3

Young people tend to give up easily 

It is so easy to just quit when something feels too hard.The idea of giving up what you’re doing to just try something else, can be the easier option sometimes.

It might be that you don’t like what you are doing.But the biggest mistake you can make sometimes is to give up.

Pushing through the hard times is what makes a stronger and well-rounded person.When things start getting a little tough, don’t take the easy way out.Keep on pushing through and you just might surprise yourself.

When you work through something tough and come out the other side, there is no better feeling.Don’t give up.Keep on fighting!

Mistake No. 4 Young People Do Accept Whatever they Hear and Believe anything.

Young people are people with great minds, full of opinion, but they will rarely challenge what they hear from older people.

Youth should be a time of learning, but also questioning what you are told and even get deeper into your own best thoughts and points of view.

Experience may lead you to discover that issues that seem black and white are actually many shades of gray.

Age doesn’t necessarily come wisdom, and many young people too easily accept what they hear from older generations.Following your instincts can take you a long way, if you know how to follow it well.

Mistake No. 5 Young People Invest Without Research

Reading and hearing stories of people who have made millions investing on the stock market can make it very tempting to give it a go yourself but don’t do that.

Investing can be a very rewarding thing but it’s not as easy as just throwing your money away on random shares.

As a young person, you need to do some research.If you invest wrongly, it can mean you lose a lot more than you put in.

If you truly want to master investing, the best way to go about it is to study some really good books on that subject.

Taking time to read 10 good books about stock market or real estate can save you from unnecessary headache that comes with losing your hard earn investment.

Mistake No. 6

Young people always want instant gratification.

 Maybe this is the biggest mistakes young people make.

Young people today are under great pressure to establish a successful career as soon as possible, to find the perfect partner at the earliest opportunity and most importantly,to enjoy themselves right here and NOW.

They always want everything NOW and that usually lead them into unnecessary short cuts, debt and unhappy future.

Mistake No. 7 Most young people don't save money.

A recent survey of 1,003 people from Bank rate found that 69% of those ages 18 to 29 had no retirement savings at all.

Your retirement may seem far off, but you're doing yourself a major disservice if you don't recognize the importance of saving as soon as possible.It’s not only retirement you should save for.You should save for investment and also for emergencies.

It’s hard to save when all your mates are buying new stuff but if you think you have a better future than theirs, you’ll be disciplined enough to save.

Mistake No. 8 Young people think that love alone is enough

To sustain a relationship Love is undoubtedly a key ingredient in making a relationship work.However, it is not sufficient.

It is possible to be very much in love with someone yet realize that the two of you are fundamentally incompatible.

The best relationships are based not on romantic love but on shared values, dreams and goals.

Communication skills and the ability to argue without hurting one another for the sake of it are also vital.

Since choosing a life partner is an important decision you’ll have to make at your 20s,knowing this truth will help you.Long lasting relationship is about love, but not just that.

Your partner must share a significant part of your values, goals and aspirations or else you won’t last together.

Mistake No. 9 Young people try to please everyone.

When you're starting out as a teenager in your early career, it can seem natural to want to be on friendly terms with your boss, clients, and all of your school mates.

It may be disappointing when you found out that some of them simply don't like you and you’ll start bending to fit in to their expectations.

This is a big mistakes because there’s no formula that guarantees that everyone will like you.You must learn how to deal with haters, very important.

Mistake No. 10 Young people Blame Their Parents for their misfortune 

We’re very sorry, your parents own you nothing.They invited you to this world, yes.But they probably have done the best they know how to do.

If you think their best is not good enough, guy, get out and fix your life.It’s your life and you’re the only one who is responsible.Your failure or success is yours and not your parents’

N/B If you takehtake these  advices you can be a better person in life.

Okay, just before you go, here is the summary of what we’ve shared with you so far;

  • Delay gratification.
  • Don’t buy things because everyone is doing so
  • Learn how to save for investment and retirement purpose
  • Don’t believe everything.Ask questions and challenge status quo
  •  Don’t fall in love because of love alone.
  • Think about values and compatibility
  • Don’t think you’re educated because you have degrees.
  • Learn every day Try things and don’t give up easily
  • Don’t blame your parents or government for your failure.
  • Take responsibility.

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