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10 Mistakes Most Young People Make & Regret Later in Life

Adolescent and early adulthood is just too exciting, no wonder most of us make several mistakes at a time like that.

I will be sharing with you 10 mistakes most young people make and regret later in their life If you’re still young, you’ll have opportunity to correct some of these mistakes.

If you’re already 75, well, we’re sorry.

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Mistake No. 1 Young People Spend money on trivial things

Most young people want to have fun; they want to enjoy their life and feel among.They look at others and want to be like them, buy what they buy and live the way they do.

Young people are more likely to run after fashion, style, fun and many more.There’s nothing bad in being fashionable and buying latest iPhones except it’s making you poorer.

As a young person, your primary assignment should be to build a solid financial foundation for your life.

To do this, you have to have the habit of saving and learn about investing.You can buy everything and anything your heart desires but that’s after you have built wealth.

I know, that’s an ugly advice for anyone at 20s, until you’re 50 and know what itmeans to be broke at such age.

Mistake No. 2.

Young people think Schooling is enough to get rich

Maybe this isn’t their fault actually,maybe we should blame the society for this.

You see, your education actually truly starts the day you leave school.You may not like to hear this but it’s the truth.The real world is very different from the four walls of the classroom.

Truly successful people are people who learn daily, even two decades after they’ve left school.

Unfortunately, most people of the world stop learning the day they leave school and that’s a big mistake that leads to poverty and unfulfilled life.

Read good books,listen to good audio program.School doesn’t teach you much things as you’ll like to believe.

Mistake No. 3

Young people tend to give up easily 

It is so easy to just quit when something feels too hard.The idea of giving up what you’re doing to just try something else, can be the easier option sometimes.

It might be that you don’t like what you are doing.But the biggest mistake you can make sometimes is to give up.

Pushing through the hard times is what makes a stronger and well-rounded person.When things start getting a little tough, don’t take the easy way out.Keep on pushing through and you just might surprise yourself.

When you work through something tough and come out the other side, there is no better feeling.Don’t give up.Keep on fighting!

Mistake No. 4 Young People Do Accept Whatever they Hear and Believe anything.

Young people are people with great minds, full of opinion, but they will rarely challenge what they hear from older people.

Youth should be a time of learning, but also questioning what you are told and even get deeper into your own best thoughts and points of view.

Experience may lead you to discover that issues that seem black and white are actually many shades of gray.

Age doesn’t necessarily come wisdom, and many young people too easily accept what they hear from older generations.Following your instincts can take you a long way, if you know how to follow it well.

Mistake No. 5 Young People Invest Without Research

Reading and hearing stories of people who have made millions investing on the stock market can make it very tempting to give it a go yourself but don’t do that.

Investing can be a very rewarding thing but it’s not as easy as just throwing your money away on random shares.

As a young person, you need to do some research.If you invest wrongly, it can mean you lose a lot more than you put in.

If you truly want to master investing, the best way to go about it is to study some really good books on that subject.

Taking time to read 10 good books about stock market or real estate can save you from unnecessary headache that comes with losing your hard earn investment.

Mistake No. 6

Young people always want instant gratification.

 Maybe this is the biggest mistakes young people make.

Young people today are under great pressure to establish a successful career as soon as possible, to find the perfect partner at the earliest opportunity and most importantly,to enjoy themselves right here and NOW.

They always want everything NOW and that usually lead them into unnecessary short cuts, debt and unhappy future.

Mistake No. 7 Most young people don't save money.

A recent survey of 1,003 people from Bank rate found that 69% of those ages 18 to 29 had no retirement savings at all.

Your retirement may seem far off, but you're doing yourself a major disservice if you don't recognize the importance of saving as soon as possible.It’s not only retirement you should save for.You should save for investment and also for emergencies.

It’s hard to save when all your mates are buying new stuff but if you think you have a better future than theirs, you’ll be disciplined enough to save.

Mistake No. 8 Young people think that love alone is enough

To sustain a relationship Love is undoubtedly a key ingredient in making a relationship work.However, it is not sufficient.

It is possible to be very much in love with someone yet realize that the two of you are fundamentally incompatible.

The best relationships are based not on romantic love but on shared values, dreams and goals.

Communication skills and the ability to argue without hurting one another for the sake of it are also vital.

Since choosing a life partner is an important decision you’ll have to make at your 20s,knowing this truth will help you.Long lasting relationship is about love, but not just that.

Your partner must share a significant part of your values, goals and aspirations or else you won’t last together.

Mistake No. 9 Young people try to please everyone.

When you're starting out as a teenager in your early career, it can seem natural to want to be on friendly terms with your boss, clients, and all of your school mates.

It may be disappointing when you found out that some of them simply don't like you and you’ll start bending to fit in to their expectations.

This is a big mistakes because there’s no formula that guarantees that everyone will like you.You must learn how to deal with haters, very important.

Mistake No. 10 Young people Blame Their Parents for their misfortune 

We’re very sorry, your parents own you nothing.They invited you to this world, yes.But they probably have done the best they know how to do.

If you think their best is not good enough, guy, get out and fix your life.It’s your life and you’re the only one who is responsible.Your failure or success is yours and not your parents’

N/B If you takehtake these  advices you can be a better person in life.

Okay, just before you go, here is the summary of what we’ve shared with you so far;

  • Delay gratification.
  • Don’t buy things because everyone is doing so
  • Learn how to save for investment and retirement purpose
  • Don’t believe everything.Ask questions and challenge status quo
  •  Don’t fall in love because of love alone.
  • Think about values and compatibility
  • Don’t think you’re educated because you have degrees.
  • Learn every day Try things and don’t give up easily
  • Don’t blame your parents or government for your failure.
  • Take responsibility.

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How To Ensure a Round Head Shape - Prevent & Improve Flat Head Syndrome


If you want to know how you can give your baby the greatest chance at having a niceo round head shape.

I equip parents with knowledge so they can care for their baby with confidence.

When a baby stays in one position for too long, he can start to develop a flat spot from the pressure to that part of the head.And if this continues on a daily basis, then it will continue to get worse.

This can happen quickly within the first 2 months and more slowly at 3 to 6 months. At this age, the baby's skull is made of several bones and they are more soft and flexible.This is to allow the rapid brain growth that occurs in the first year of life.

The major causes of a baby developing a flat spot on the head include prematurity, limited exposure to tummy time, and not changing up the baby’s head position.

There are also some babies who either because of their position in the womb or after a difficult delivery, will have their neck muscle shorten on one side. This medical condition is called Torticollis.

The baby's head will tilt to one side, while the chin tilts to the other side.There will also be a limit in the baby's ability to turn the neck and head.

Babies with torticollis, have higher chance of getting a flat spot on their head because the baby’s head tends to always be turned to the same side. If you think that your baby might have torticollis, then talk to your doctor about it.

To prevent a flat spot from developing, it is very important to change up your babies head position throughout the day.

During feeding time, especially if your baby is bottle fed, be sure to alternate the arm with which you hold your baby so that it limits the pressure that you apply against the back of one side of the head more than the other side. Asimple way to remember this, is to change the babies position after each burp.

Alternating your baby's environment by changing the position of interesting items like toys,will encourage your baby to change his head position as well.

When your baby is awake and laying on his back, if he has not turned his head from one side to the other on his own in 10-15 minutes, go ahead and reposition by turning it to the other side.

Also frequently alternate the way you put your baby down to sleep. One night you can have him sleep with his head toward one end of the crib, the next night have him sleep with his head toward the other end of the crib.

Alternating the baby's body position nightly will help keep your baby from always sleeping on one side and developing a flat spot there.

Having your baby do tummy time while awake and under your supervision, is a great activity that also helps reduce the risk of a flat spot developing.

Tummy time also lets your baby exercise her neck, back, shoulders, and arms. It’s important to do it as part of your baby’s daily routine.

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Your baby learns to hold her head steady as she is held or carried. Be sure to pick your baby up from different sides and consistently alternate the arm with which you hold her, so she can turn and look to each side.

Avoid keeping your baby in a car seat, baby swing, or carrier for long periods of time. These positions put pressure on the back of her head and can contribute to the formation of a flat spot.

I think that prevention is the best approach, however when it is found early, making simple changes to the baby's position will improve a flat spot.

So what should you do if your baby's head already has a flat spot?

For example. If the baby has a mild flat spot on the left back part of his head. All the techniques mentioned above, if done consistently will not only help with prevention,but will also help correct a flat spot that has already formed.

So It would be intentional about doing all the things to change the head position throughout the day and during sleep.Work on increasing tummy time as well.

In the case of the baby who has a flat spot on the left side of his head, I would recommend that the parents do activities that make him lay more on the right side of his head or straight on the back of his head for longer periods of time than his left side.

We don’t want the spot that is already flat getting more pressure placed on it, because that will just make it worse.

By putting toys on the right side or having the parents position themselves on the baby's right side will have him turning his head to the right to look at them.

When laying him into the crib, having the room wall on his left side will have him turning his head to the right, because he is more interested in what is going on in his room,rather than staring at the wall.

If your baby has a flat spot, continue to pay attention to it and have your baby's doctor

take a look at it at every check up visit.

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