How to be a good/stunning mother/ parent.

Have you ever wondered , how you are supposed to be  a good mother to your kids. Take a case your are a new parent to your family and you don't know where to start from ? The following are guidelines on how to be a good mother or  parent

Be always optimistic

Always try to have a positive set mind that you are going to make it through in parenting. 

I know being a newbie in parenthood,it sometimes hectic and tiresome. Having a  well focussed minds idea and always trying to discover news things , is the only way to overcome challenges in your motherhood.

Be reliable

A good mother should always be reliable to the family members. Being present will increase the trustworthy and everyone including your children will put trust in you.

They will not have any doubt in you and they will forever rely on you,because you will offer protection and any solution to their problems.

Be self dependent

Always try to depend on yourself. Trusting yourself leads to independent and a strong woman.  Sometimes try to try new things and new ideas in your parenting, thus making you to become a successful and a hard-working woman in the house.

Always try to look on ways to provide the basic needs to your family. Don't always depend on your husband,to bring everything to the house. Sometimes you can go for Hire to do jobs like washing clothes, digging for others if you are a staying home mother. These can generate income and you will ease up the burden of hunger in your family.

Be ready to help out

Always be ready to help others out: If you see someone who needs help, don’t hesitate or ignore them and make sure to reach out to them either directly or indirectly. Be ready to help your kids to grow in a moral way. Don't always leave your family members to suffer. If you have the potential in extending the hand either financially or verbally, just do it. 

 Helping the unfortunate in the family makes and creates good relationships with other family member.

Let them lean on you and assure them that you will be able to help them somehow. That will make you more approachable and trustworthy.

Be ready to learn out

Have the mentality to improve. Be ready to learn and improve your skills and attitudes. Try to read from other women and sometimes seek guidance from elder mothers.

Be honest and faithful.

Being honest and truthful makes your family to gain respect for you. Always stick to your parenting and never ignore any tasks that comes in the way. Always remember to trust the process of taking care of your family members and never have partiality in up bringing your children. Learn to love them all.

Be present: Sometimes, you just have to be present and available to people, nothing else is needed in most circumstances. Whether it’s a grieving friend, a tired colleague, an unhappy lover, just being by there and being available is very important