Hello, good people there are some things that you are not supposed to share with anyone whether your friend or enemy.
There are some things that we are not supposed have or even think to tell our friends. some secret that we do not share with anyone.
By sharing some things with someone our heart becomes lighter and we come closer to each other but there are some things that should not be told to anyone even after forgetting.
Number one
The secret of your progress or success.
Most of us feel good when we have succeeded in life and sometimes we feel that other people should know. At times we trust our innermost friends and share our progress not knowing that not all our friends have good heart. Others feel jealous when you have achieved a certain property.
For example ,you can tell even your family members that you have a certain project of buying a land and they become brokers to bring you down. Not all that glitters is gold meaning never trust your friend, instead you should have your secrets kept among your intermediate family if only they are trustworthy. Some people if you try to inform them about how you have opened a business and they make a decision of doing the same business like you and if they fail,they will lose trust in you and accuse you of not telling them the truth. So never tell anyone the secret of your success
Number two
Don't share your problems
Sharing our problems makes us feel lighter and less burdened, but instead of solving the problems it increases.
When you tell your problem to people you are increasing the chances of creating more enemies, because your friends will run away from you. Let's talk for example the case of finance. If you talk your struggles on raising the money e.g school fees,they will think that you will borrow from them and they will look for all means to avoid you.
Instead of helping,they will talk ill of you. Try as much as possible to know whom to tell your troubles.
In fact 70 of the people are happy to hear about your problems and 10 really care.So think twice before telling someone your problems,because they may end up adding more troubles to your heart and life.
Number three
Don't share your dreams with anyone
If you have certain dreams that you are supposed to persue in life,never ever reveal them to people. If you want to buy a car or continue with your achievements in life for example in education,just consult from professional people who can give good advise on career progression. They can make you to achieve more goals in life.
But if you go to a person who has jealous and doesn't have any dream in life,they will mislead and misguide you until you end up taking wrong choices. Their aim is to destroy and they feel bad when you progress in life.
If you have already set your goals and dreams in life, it is best to keep them to yourself.
Because sharing them can affect your point of view and your purpose and you can get caught up in it.
Always remember that we cannot get the same advice or opinion from others because every person has a different point of view.
Number four
Don't share with anyone how much you earn up
It doesn't matter how much you earn,just keep it to yourself. Your salary may affect you directly or indirectly. The person you tell are the same people who will look for all means to bring you down. They will be borrowing money from you and if you don't give them they will even plot to kill you. They will not understand when you tell them that you don't have money because you had given out your secret on salary.
Others will borrow and they promise to return back but ,but back in their mind they had achieved what they wanted. When you try to ask them, they will even abuse you and tell you ,you have a lot of money and you want us to return the money back? That question shows an indication how jealous they are, concerning your income.
Just keep your income secretly and don't even think of showing your family members how much you have in the banks,the assets and liabilities you possess.
Number five
Don't share your family problems with anyone
Most of the families have their own problems,which are big than yours and others small but they don't tell it out.
Sharing with strangers will never solve those problems. Instead you will be destroying your family and they will definitely know how desperate you are.
Most of the people they love to hear other people's problem and they longer stretch out an helping hand,instead of building they destroy.
You should talk to your family members about these problems.
Sharing these issues with others only aggravates the problem and leaves in you dilemma situation not knowing what to do.
If you have other tips don't forget to include them under comment section and don't forget to share.
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